How to manage office disagreements

10 August, 2010 (15:46) | tips | By: Emerald

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In the pressure packed world of commerce, your officemates can be the first to test your patience. Whether it’s because of job pressures, stress, familiarity, or because your boss is breathing down your neck, it’s often your officemates who wind up getting the brunt of your anger.

So the moment you’re ready to burst your bubble because your seatmate did something that infuriates you, just read these simple tips from office-harmony pundits that will help you become a peace loving individual rather than war freak.

Rather than punching your coworker the next time he irks you, try to initiate a calm, productive chat, where you can both arrive at a situation that will suit both sides. By doing this, both come out as winners.
The fact that the girl next to you took another call when it is urgent to meet her for a consult is probably not the reason why you’re pissed. Though this is less than considerate, you may want to discuss the situation with her.

Conflict-resolution conversations does not guarantee a solution that address sources of conflict, however, you may have to think what’s really getting under your skin before taking it out with your officemate.